To ensure that one does his best in parenting,full patience and regular works must be given to it.Out there,we have many parenting techniques and styles,but here, am giving you "positive time out" as the best way of parenting children.In our society or in some families some parents and experts do mistake by failing to know the techniques or system of controlling what a child thinks about.If a parent can exercise patience and understand what a child thinks at that particular time, it would be very easy for them to control those children.
Most parents do not understand the fact that children make decision that can benefit themselves and their world and base on these they make all efforts to make sure those decisions are fulfilled.
This is a good opportunity for the parent to patiently study the situation and when understood, now make use of his techniques of how to parent children to effect.
Negative time out is when a parent thougth in his mind the best way to get best from children is to first suffer them.this is quite wrong,spanking,nagging and yelling are not the best way of parenting children.You must first find out why they behaved the way they did and after known the reason,you now come out with your own parenting techniques.
Therefore,positive time outs is when parents understand the fact that,'children perform well when they are treated well'.parents should put themselves in children's shoe whether they feel good in a bad environment or bad in a good environment.
Negative time out is totally ineffective in parenting children because it worsens situations.
How positive time out can help in parenting:
- Positive time out creates room for children to think and later behave reasonably after some time when they have known they have made a mistake, they will now personally make an adjustment.
- Positive time out makes parent happy because if they can exercise patience and study what goes wrong, technically and gently fix it, both parents and children will later happy.
- It makes children thrive well in a better environment,opposite will be the case if negative time out is used.
